Introduction

• Opening Statement: “The reality is a lot of men will say she lied to me in the beginning, she was so good, she lied to me.”
• Thesis: Women often show their true selves through subtle cues and behaviors, and men who ignore these red flags may find themselves in unhealthy relationships. Recognizing these signs and maintaining self-respect is crucial.

Women Show, Not Tell

1. Subtle Truths
   • Behavioral Cues: Women may not explicitly lie but show their true nature through actions and behaviors.
   • Misinterpreted Signals: Men often misinterpret or ignore these signals, leading to feelings of betrayal later.
2. Common Red Flags
   • Provocative Dress: Indicating a certain lifestyle or attitude.
   • Sexual Behavior: Being very sexually liberal may signal differing values.
   • Talking About Exes: Negative or lingering feelings towards exes can be a warning sign.

Recognizing Patterns

1. Parenting and Priorities
   • Parenting Behavior: How a woman interacts with or prioritizes her children can indicate her values and responsibilities.
   • Denial of Access: Denying a previous partner access to children might signal future issues.
2. Choosing the Wrong Partners
   • Selecting Weak Boundaries: Women with many red flags often choose men who have low self-esteem and poor boundary-setting skills.
   • Manipulation and Control: These women may manipulate men who don’t recognize or enforce their own boundaries.

Self-Respect and Boundaries

1. Clear Boundaries
   • Men with Boundaries: Men with strong boundaries typically attract women who respect those limits and have fewer red flags.
   • Healthy Relationships: Clear boundaries create a balanced and respectful relationship dynamic.
2. Low Self-Esteem Risks
   • Lack of Boundaries: Men with low self-esteem often fail to set and enforce boundaries.
   • Cycle of Disrespect: This leads to a cycle of being manipulated, cheated on, and disrespected.

Strategies for Men

1. Recognizing Red Flags Early
   • Pay Attention: Be attentive to subtle cues and behaviors from the beginning of the relationship.
   • Trust Actions Over Words: Focus on actions rather than just words to gauge a person’s true nature.
2. Building Self-Esteem and Boundaries
   • Self-Improvement: Work on building self-esteem and self-worth independently of relationships.
   • Enforcing Boundaries: Learn to set and enforce boundaries to protect yourself from manipulation and disrespect.

Conclusion

• Final Thoughts: “If you are a man with low self-esteem and value connection more than respect, you will find yourself constantly manipulated, cheated on, and disrespected.”
• Call to Action: Recognize red flags early, build self-esteem, and set clear boundaries to ensure healthy and respectful relationships.
• Encouragement: By understanding these dynamics and making conscious choices, men can create healthier and more fulfilling relationships.