Learning When Somebody Does Not Want to Rock With You The older I get, the more I understand that one of life’s hardest lessons is knowing when to stop chasing somebody who does not want to be caught. When a woman shows a man that she is not interested, sometimes his pride tells him to
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What Makes Somebody Catch Our Eye I have always found it interesting how one person can walk into a room and immediately catch somebody’s attention while another person barely gets noticed. Attraction can feel mysterious because we do not always consciously understand what made us look twice. Sometimes it is somebody’s face, sometimes their body,
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Love Can Make Us Feel Vulnerable I understand the idea that when a man truly loves a woman, he becomes more aware of what he could lose. Love has a way of making even a confident person feel vulnerable because somebody else suddenly matters enough to hurt you. A man may know how other men
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Grown Folks Ought to Tell the Truth At a certain age, I believe we ought to know enough about ourselves to stop selling people a version of us that does not exist. We are too grown to be lying about what we want, what we can give, and what we know we are not prepared
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The Argument Is Not Always the Real Argument The older I get, the more I realize that people are not always arguing about what they claim they are arguing about. The disagreement may start over politics, dirty dishes, money, somebody leaving the milk out, or something said on the evening news. Before long, two people
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Everybody Is Not Going to Be Your Cup of Tea One thing life has taught me is that I am not going to like everybody I meet, and everybody I meet is not going to like me. That is just part of being human, and pretending otherwise does not make much sense to me. Sometimes
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The Love Hidden in Consideration The older I get, the more I believe one of the highest forms of love is consideration. Sacrifice might rank a little higher, but that is a conversation for another day. I am talking about those small moments when somebody shows you that you crossed their mind without asking for
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What Rubs Off on Us There is an old saying that if you sit in a fish market long enough, sooner or later you are going to smell like fish. Sit in a perfume shop, and chances are some of that sweet fragrance will follow you out the door. I have come to understand that
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What the Buss Family Taught Me About Wealth Whenever I hear people talk about generational wealth, the conversation usually begins with making enough money to leave something behind. That sounds simple enough until I look at families that actually accomplished it. The late Jerry Buss bought the Los Angeles Lakers in 1979 as part of
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Matching Energy Is Not Always Strength I have noticed that some of us believe the only way to deal with a difficult person is to become difficult ourselves. Somebody raises their voice, so we raise ours. Somebody gets disrespectful, and we decide they need to see that we can be disrespectful too. Somebody brings hostility
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