Breakdown:

1. Introduction: The Perceived Lack of Value from Women
   • In this perspective, the idea is that women, regardless of their personal achievements or wealth, don’t inherently bring value to a man’s life without being given purpose.
   • The frustration stems from the belief that women focus on superficial aspects (appearance, social outings) rather than offering meaningful contributions to a relationship.
2. The Challenge of Supporting a “Purposeless” Partner
   • The emotional, mental, and physical energy required to engage with a woman who lacks a deeper purpose is seen as draining.
   • Despite having jobs, relationships, and hobbies, some women are viewed as being without a core purpose, leading men to feel burdened with filling that void.
3. Men as Providers of Purpose
   • The argument is that men must define purpose for women, giving direction and meaning in a relationship.
   • Without this guidance, men who follow a woman’s energy and agenda will end up directionless and unfulfilled.
4. The Perceived Limitations of Wealthy or Successful Women
   • Even if a woman has financial success, it’s suggested that she cannot truly provide fulfillment for a man. A woman may have money, but it doesn’t translate into helping a man feel masculine or purposeful.
   • Men are responsible for creating their own sense of value and purpose, independent of what a woman offers materially.
5. The Burden of Masculinity and Self-Worth
   • Ultimately, the responsibility of feeling like a “good man” falls solely on men. Women, no matter their status or actions, are seen as incapable of providing that sense of self-worth.
   • Men must establish their own direction and purpose to feel empowered in both life and relationships.
6. Conclusion: The Importance of Self-Driven Purpose for Men
   • The core message is that men must take control of their own lives and purpose, rather than relying on or expecting a woman to offer them direction or fulfillment.
   • In this view, relationships can only thrive when men are self-reliant, driven by their own purpose, and not following a woman’s lead.